How to Talk to Your Supervisor About Burnout

Experiencing burnout in the workplace can be overwhelming and detrimental to both your well-being and job performance. It's important to recognize the signs of burnout, understand its impact, and take proactive steps towards your recovery. In this blog post, we will explore the symptoms of burnout, strategies for communicating your burnout to a supervisor, and the potential concerns an employer might have when an employee expresses feeling overwhelmed.

Recognizing Your Burnout

Burnout, also known as burnout syndrome or job burnout, is a state of chronic physical and emotional exhaustion caused by prolonged work-related stress. Symptoms may include a lack of motivation, increased irritability, decreased productivity, fatigue, and physical or emotional detachment from work. It's crucial to identify these signs early on to prevent further escalation and to address the issue promptly. Burnout and depression can look very similar, but it is often helpful to think about whether the symptoms you experience go away when you’ve had some time away from work. If that’s the case, then it is more likely that you’re suffering from burnout than from a more generalized depression.

Be Mindful of Your Employer’s Concerns

When approaching your supervisor about burnout, it's essential to recognize their priorities and concerns. Many employers focus on workflow efficiency and the bottom line. Their responsibility is to keep everything running smoothly. That requires that their employees are doing well, so they can perform their jobs to the best of their ability. Therefore, framing your conversation in a way that acknowledges their concerns while emphasizing the impact burnout has on your productivity and well-being is crucial.

Setting the Stage for a Good Conversation

Prepare and Plan

Before speaking with your supervisor, take time to gather your thoughts and develop a clear understanding of your own needs and expectations. Identify specific examples that demonstrate how burnout is affecting your work.

Choose the Right Time and Place

Schedule a meeting with your supervisor to discuss your concerns. Select a time when both of you can focus without distractions. An appropriate and professional setting can facilitate open communication.

Be Clear about the Impact on You and Your Work

Share your experience of burnout, expressing how it is impacting you and how it is affecting your work performance. Use specific examples to highlight the decline in productivity, quality of work, and any missed deadlines, and be sure to talk about how this is not satisfactory to you. It is important that your employer understand that you aren’t just complaining, you’re wanting to do something to improve your productivity and outcomes.

Offer Solutions

Propose potential solutions that address both your well-being and the employer's concerns. Discuss the possibility of adjusting workloads, reallocating responsibilities, or exploring flexible work arrangements. Suggest strategies like time management techniques or resources that could help alleviate the stress. Also consider whether even temporary adjustments could help you to regain balance and improve your functioning.

Be Open about Seeking and Accepting Support

Communicate your willingness to actively participate in finding solutions and your openness to support from the company, such as employee assistance programs or wellness initiatives. Demonstrating a proactive attitude reassures your supervisor that you are committed to finding a resolution.

Talking to Your Supervisor is an Important Step to Recovery

Communicating burnout to your supervisor can be challenging, especially when they prioritize workflow and the bottom line before focusing on individual employee needs. By recognizing the symptoms of burnout, understanding your employer's concerns, and using effective communication strategies, you can increase the chances of finding a mutually beneficial solution. Remember, addressing burnout is vital for your well-being and job performance, and open dialogue is an essential step toward recovery.

Andrea Guenther-Pal, JD, LCSW, CCTP

Andrea Guenther-Pal, JD, LCSW, CCTP, is a psychotherapist who helps women+ professionals find balance, peace, and purpose. She works with clients online throughout Illinois and Wisconsin.

https://www.livelihoodcounseling.com
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